The World Health
Organization estimates that around the world nearly 68,000 women die every year
from complications of unsafe abortion. This translates to approximately 190
deaths per day; about the equivalent of a fatal jumbo jet crash with nearly 400
people on board every two days year round. How does death on such a massive
daily scale not raise a global outcry?
Here is a story I would like to share with you.
I was born 18 years ago. I couldn’t go beyond primary school since my parents died. I’m living with my grandmother. I got pregnant by accident. I was just earning my bread from sex. I decided on my own to abort. A traditional healer gave me some local herbs to drink but it was unsuccessful. I decided to go to hospital and talk to a doctor whom I believed was sympathetic and he carried out the abortion. I couldn’t change my mind since if I was to proceed with that pregnancy where I could get money to feed myself and take care of that child?
I went to school but couldn’t continue after I got pregnant. I fell in love with a soldier who impregnated me. I was 14 years old. I used to play sex with that soldier without protection. I didn’t like it and I decided to
have an abortion.Once my sister’s husband raped me. I felt so bad mentally and physically because this was a man I respected.I told him and he advised me to get an abortion. I knew I could not continue with this pregnancy.
have an abortion.Once my sister’s husband raped me. I felt so bad mentally and physically because this was a man I respected.I told him and he advised me to get an abortion. I knew I could not continue with this pregnancy.
First, I didn’t want my sister to know that her husband had made me pregnant. Secondly, I would like to continue with my studies. I couldn’t explain to my parents. I couldn’t ever stand the shame and blame. I have moved out of my sister’s house to avoid further torture.
I am living with HIV. What I fear is that we might get a child who is HIV positive and I would die tomorrow and leave this child with all that difficulty. I don’t have a father, I don’t have any other person who would look after a child especially one with this kind of status. So I was not really comfortable having another child.
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A true story told,..
